(704)Chapter: A Man That Marries A Woman And Finds Her Pregnant
A man from the Ansar called Basrah said:
I married a virgin woman in her veil. When I
entered upon her, I found her pregnant. (I mentioned this to the
Prophet). The Prophet (ﷺ) said: She will get the dower, for you made her
vagina lawful for you. The child will be your slave. When she has
begotten (a child), flog her (according to the version of al-Hasan). The
version of Ibn AbusSari has: You people, flog her, or said: inflict
hard punishment on her.
عَنْ رَجُلٍ، مِنَ الأَنْصَارِ - قَالَ ابْنُ أَبِي السَّرِيِّ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَلَمْ يَقُلْ مِنَ الأَنْصَارِ ثُمَّ اتَّفَقُوا - يُقَالُ لَهُ بَصْرَةُ قَالَ تَزَوَّجْتُ امْرَأَةً بِكْرًا فِي سِتْرِهَا فَدَخَلْتُ عَلَيْهَا فَإِذَا هِيَ حُبْلَى فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم " لَهَا الصَّدَاقُ بِمَا اسْتَحْلَلْتَ مِنْ فَرْجِهَا وَالْوَلَدُ عَبْدٌ لَكَ فَإِذَا وَلَدَتْ " . قَالَ الْحَسَنُ " فَاجْلِدْهَا " . وَقَالَ ابْنُ أَبِي السَّرِيِّ " فَاجْلِدُوهَا " . أَوْ قَالَ " فَحُدُّوهَا " .
| Grade | : Da'if (Al-Albani) | ضعيف (الألباني) |
| Reference | : Sunan Abi Dawud 2131 |
| In-book reference | : Book 12, Hadith 86 |
| English translation | : Book 11, Hadith 2126 |
The hadeeth is unauthentic !
Da`if -weak hadeeth:
A hadith which fails to reach the status of Hasan is Da`if. Usually, the weakness is one of discontinuity in the isnad, in which case the hadith could be Mursal, Mu`allaq, Mudallas, Munqati` or Mu`dal, according to the precise nature of the discontinuity, or one of a reporter having a disparaged character, such as due to his telling lies, excessive mistakes, opposition to the narration of more reliable sources, involvement in innovation, or ambiguity surrounding his person.
The smaller the number and importance of defects, the less severe the weakness. The more the defects in number and severity, the closer the hadith will be to being Maudu` (fabricated).76
Some ahadith, according to the variation in the nature of the weakness associated with its reporters, rank at the bottom of the Hasan grade or at the top of the Da`if grade. Reporters such as `Abdullah b. Lahi'ah (a famous judge from Egypt), `Abd al-Rahman b. Zaid b. Aslam, Abu Bakr b. Abi Maryam al-Himsi, Faraj b. Fadalah, and Rishdin b. Sa'd attract such types of varying ranks as they are neither extremely good preservers nor totally abandoned by the traditionists.
http://www.islamic-awareness.org/Hadith/Ulum/asb7.html
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